{"id":314,"date":"2014-10-07T05:52:31","date_gmt":"2014-10-07T05:52:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/aidin-vastuu\/"},"modified":"2017-11-27T19:01:11","modified_gmt":"2017-11-27T19:01:11","slug":"aidin-vastuu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/aidin-vastuu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c4idin vastuu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/2010\/10\/img_0119-001.jpg?fit=1600%2C1067&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/2010\/10\/img_0119-001.jpg?w=1600&amp;ssl=1 1600w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/2010\/10\/img_0119-001.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/2010\/10\/img_0119-001.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/2010\/10\/img_0119-001.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" data-attachment-id=\"3033\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/img_0119-001\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/2010\/10\/img_0119-001.jpg?fit=1600%2C1067&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1600,1067\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"img_0119-001\" data-image-description=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/2010\/10\/img_0119-001.jpg?fit=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/2010\/10\/img_0119-001.jpg?fit=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1\" \/> <\/p>\n<p>Hilma on flunssassa. Eilen tytt\u00f6 kiemurteli sohvalla kuumeisena ja piti pient\u00e4, valittavaa \u00e4\u00e4nt\u00e4. Tuttu tunne; kun kuume kolottaa j\u00e4seni\u00e4, tulee sellainen olo ett\u00e4 haluaisi joka uloshengityksell\u00e4 v\u00e4h\u00e4n vaikertaa. Otin tyt\u00f6n syliin, j\u00e4tin kaikki ty\u00f6t ja tekemiset kesken ja sitten vaan istuttiin pitk\u00e4\u00e4n. Siin\u00e4 ehdin mietti\u00e4 taas kaikenlaista. Minun pit\u00e4isi useammin muistaa, ett\u00e4 n\u00e4m\u00e4 ovat niit\u00e4 hetki\u00e4, mist\u00e4 lasteni lapsuusmuistot aikanaan koostuvat. Millaisena he minut muistavat? Nyt he automaattisesti ajattelevat ett\u00e4 se, mit\u00e4 kotona on ja kuinka min\u00e4 ja Tuukka sanomme, on oikein. T\u00e4\u00e4ll\u00e4 opitut ja koetut asiat kasvavat heihin kiinni.<\/p>\n<p>Olen valinnut el\u00e4m\u00e4n t\u00e4\u00e4ll\u00e4 lasten kanssa, kuitenkaan tinkim\u00e4tt\u00e4 omista tekemisist\u00e4ni. Se on t\u00e4llaisina hetkin\u00e4 haasteellista. Ty\u00f6vastuu ja \u00c4idin vastuu vaakakupissa. Aion siis pohdintani j\u00e4lkeen olla parempi. En tarkoita sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 lasten kanssa pit\u00e4isi tehd\u00e4 kamalasti kaikkea, vied\u00e4 tai j\u00e4rjest\u00e4\u00e4 ohjelmaa. Enemm\u00e4nkin haluan olla \u00e4iti, joka kuulee kun on oikeasti tarve, malttaa selitt\u00e4\u00e4 miksi, on iloinen, hauska ja jaksaa viel\u00e4 silloinkin kun muut eiv\u00e4t jaksa.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1067\" height=\"1600\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/img_0133.jpg?fit=1067%2C1600&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/img_0133.jpg?w=1067&amp;ssl=1 1067w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/img_0133.jpg?resize=200%2C300&amp;ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/img_0133.jpg?resize=768%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/img_0133.jpg?resize=683%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 683w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1067px) 100vw, 1067px\" data-attachment-id=\"1543\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/img_0133\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/img_0133.jpg?fit=1067%2C1600&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1067,1600\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"img_0133\" data-image-description=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/img_0133.jpg?fit=200%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/img_0133.jpg?fit=683%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hilma on flunssassa. Eilen tytt\u00f6 kiemurteli sohvalla kuumeisena ja piti pient\u00e4, valittavaa&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":35,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[35],"acf":[],"platta":{"numLikes":0,"numComments":4,"category":null,"themes":[],"commercial_partner":null,"thumbnail":"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/a-lehdet-blogs.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/sites\/29\/2010\/10\/img_0119-001.jpg","blog_id":29},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/posts\/314"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/users\/35"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=314"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/posts\/314\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3034,"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/posts\/314\/revisions\/3034"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=314"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=314"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogit.meillakotona.fi\/olgankotona\/api\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=314"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}